Learn How To Follow Your Own Truth

Learn How To Follow Your Own Truth

What does following your own truth actually mean? And why can owning your truth be hard at times especially when you are highly empathic or sensitive.

Living Your Truth

Well to live your truth is about living a life full of authenticity and openness. To me it is also one that is guided by spiritual guidance. But why do so many of us live most of our lives trying to live up to other people’s expectations or definitions of truth.

As a highly sensitive empath I was a big people pleaser who struggled to own my truth. I have spent most of my life enmeshed in other peoples emotions I struggled to know my own. I’ve struggled to own and express my truth because of a distorted perception that owning my truth would hurt someone else

Following Your Own Truth

For me following your truth has to start by recognising and owning what is true to you, no one else. From infanthood, we are exposed to other people’s beliefs, conditioning, values, but that doesn’t mean they are our truth. Other people’s perception of truth is based on their beliefs, personal experiences, and what feels true for them.

Every single one of us is uniquely different from our own unique soul’s essence. That essence is part of a bigger picture, the jigsaw of life. And to do that in the healthiest authentic way we need to be able to follow what is true in our heart. In many ways I mean to follow our spiritual truth, not our egoic truth. So it is about getting out of our head, our fear, and into the heart and soul.

Identifying Your Truth When Your Highly Empathic

We are all exposed to other people’s beliefs and ideologies on a daily basis. But at a core level your soul craves the need to follow your own path. Your spirit wants to live a life that is based on your integral values, your inner compass.

One thing I was taught early on from my father was to trust my intuition. But to be honest being a bit of an unruly empath my energy can easily be dominated by much stronger personalities or their views. Like many empaths I am very easily entangled by the emotional pain and needs of others. So I have to identify, own and step into my truth, know what is is my energy and what is not.

Moving Into What Is True For You

Believe me moving into your own truth isn’t easy if you have strong characters or strong views around you. But finding your truth is so important when trying to live a more healthy authentic life. If you don’t it is too easy to be living everyone else’s truth rather than your own.

Why It Is Easy To Lose Your Truth

So many people struggle to know their truth never mind follow their truth. It’s easy to lose yourself, lose your truth, your voice in relationships, within family dynamics or at work. In jobs and careers where you have to live by other people’s policies, rules, core ethics, and values it is easy to lose or forget your truth. Many work environment actually encourage suppression of truth and core values so much so you barely recognise yourself

This is especially true for those of you who are highly empathic with unhealthy boundaries. But believe me I know if you don’t get behind your truth, your inner guidance, you lose you. It can lead to anxiety, stress become you have moved out of alignment with yourself.

Of course, on a spiritual level, everyone’s truth is just a story, just a perception. But to maintain a healthy relationship with ourselves and to have direction we need to know ourselves. We need to know what feels right and fits with our values and what doesn’t. Suppressing or denying what feels true for you, can lead to all sorts of internal chaos, confusion even dis-ease. So start owning your truth today.

How To Follow Your Own Truth Live Your Truth if you are a highly empathic or sensitive soul

How To Start Owning What is True To You

When you start owning your truth it can be very freeing, expressing it can bring up very strong fear. Learning how to express that truth in a clear and concise way can take time especially if you struggle with assertiveness. Building more clear and honest communication between you and others can take a lot of courage, self-compassion and patience.

Top Tips To Start Owning And Expressing Your Truth

Learn how to differentiate your energy and emotions from someone else’s

Take moments to stop and get out of your head, be more in the moment and connect with the self, meditation will help.

Develop more confidence in your own inner navigation system, your intuition.
Start loving and honouring yourself more, recognise your truth is just as important as someone else’s.
If need be put yourself in a ball of light that helps shield you from other people’s overpowering opinions.

Be kind be more compassionate with yourself this can be new territory or behaviour for many of you

When you are expressing your own truth owning it by starting with the world “I” for example I feel, I see the situation this way...

Heal your inner child, the shadow elements of the wounded child and eternal child that is stopping you from maturing into the adult you.

Inspirational Quotes About Living Your Truth

No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.” Buddha

I am here to serve. I am here to inspire. I am here to love. I am here to live my truth.” Deepak Chopra

“Tune into your truth. Live it. Breath it. Beam it.” Emma Kate

“Listen to your own truth.” Ram Dass

“As a matter of honor, one man owes it to another to manifest the truth.” ~ Thomas Aquinas

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Healing The Inner Child – The Highly Sensitive Person

Healing The Inner Child – The Highly Sensitive Person

Why healing the inner child can support Highly Sensitive People and Empaths who struggle with their sensitivity.

Healing the inner child can be a very powerful way to address all sorts of forms of dis-ease, unhealthy beliefs, and conditioning. How we experience and see the world as a child often shapes how we show up as an adult. And this is no different for the highly sensitive child who can find the modern world a harsh place. Empaths and HSP’s struggle to thrive in life because in some ways they have struggled to survive their childhood.

Struggles Of The Empath And Highly Sensitive Person

No matter how healthy or unhealthy your childhood was many HSP’s and empaths struggle because of their level of sensitivity and awareness. Highly sensitive people are generally more sensitive to their own wounding and surroundings.  The highly sensitive empath takes that a bit further they will feel the emotional pain of others. And some of us also take on the energetic imprint or physical pain of others.

Every HSP and Empath is unique but like everyone in life, they will feel different levels of that pain, they will also have their own personal challenges and trauma. 

 

Inner Child Healing – The Highly Sensitive Child

 The highly sensitive child/person has such heightened awareness than those around them that they can see, hear, feel, and interpret things to a greater degree than most people couldn’t imagine. The HSP child will often be viewed as too sensitive, too weak, too childlike, irrational, naive…

These natural gifts and traits often trigger fear and misunderstanding in the parents, siblings, and caregivers around them which is projected onto the child. They are often taught that who they are at a core level is flawed, bad, wrong, not enough. Told to toughen up, be brave, be bold, shut down their emotions, act differently; basically not be their sacred self.

Many highly sensitive children are highly empathic, intuitive and even psychic. This again can trigger tremendous fear in those around them which the child senses.  So much so the child will shut down their natural traits, their natural state of being. That is why inner child work is highly recommended for empaths and the highly sensitive person.

Increased Empowerment From Healing The Inner Child

So many highly sensitive people including highly sensitive children often don’t know where they fit in. This can create a great degree of inner conflict especially when we are living in a very noisy, materialistic society. A culture that is often embedded with self-preservation and self-success than any on compassion and deep humanity for others around us. 

Healing The Inner Child - The Highly Sensitive Person And Empath by Inner Child Therapist - Eileen Burns

Inner Child work can be extremely healing for the HSP who struggles to honour themself and their sensitivity. It is empowering for the empath or HSP who can’t say no and struggles with boundaries. For those who too easily take on other people’s drama or pain.

In my one to one sessions and inner child programs for sensitives and empaths. I address different aspects of the inner child. Working on the wounded child, abandoned child, the eternal child and the more positive aspects of the inner child. It is extremely healing and empowering to address underlying triggers where you felt traumatised, abandoned or disempowered. Those experiences where we have shut down mentally, physically, emotionally, or spiritually.

Unlock Your Gifts From Healing The Inner Child

 

Clients and therapists experience many benefits and insights from inner child work. Even simply listening to inner child healing guided meditations that have been created by someone qualified to do. Because so many HSP’s haven’t learned to own and harness their sensitive gifts in a positive way. You may not recognise that some of your physical symptoms are just signs your gifts are trying to show up. Or maybe you need to start owning your power, your sovereignty.

Maybe you need to say NO? Stop allowing others to take advantage, control, or impose their beliefs or wants onto you. Maybe you need to put you first?  So many HSP’s are the over giver, wounded healer, victim, martyr, or rescuer.

 

If you would like some help to heal your inner child I have my full Healing Your Inner Child Program as well as various stand-alone modules you can begin with. My latest most popular session is Inner Child- Fairytale Writing Module

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How To Let Go And Let God – Trust And Surrender

How To Let Go And Let God – Trust And Surrender

Having The Strength To Let Go And Let God

 

Do you have the ability to trust and surrender, to let go and let god?

The ability to let go of control in difficult situations?

Or do you have that constant need to control or fix everything?

 

Why True Empowerment Involves An Element Of Letting Go

You know one of the things I learned along my own journey is that to become truly empowered we need to let go and let god. It took me a long time to realise this and like most of us, I have to be reminded. The ego fools us into believing that we must do this, need to that as if we are supposed to control everything. As if the world, the universe is this terrible place that doesn’t provide, nurture, or support us.

Most of us hold deeply ingrained beliefs that imply we are the only ones who can and must make it all happen. And that you have to do this or that to be enough or to be this worthy person.  These perceptions completely separate us from universal laws and god.

It’s sad how much-distorted perceptions we all carry from ancestral, cultural, religious, and society’s conditioning. And how these conscious and unconscious distortions can shape or destroy our life. What we believe or don’t believe about ourselves can create a great illusion and delusion lol.

How To Let Go And Let God Be The Caretaker

Some of the biggest distorted perceptions many empaths and highly sensitive people hold is that their role is to constantly support, fix, heal, or put others’ needs first. This is evident in the way you may absorb and or interact with other people’s energy or pain. It is so easy to over-identify with the healer or carer role on an unconscious and conscious level. When we believe we have to or should control or fix every situation. When the reality is so far from the truth.

We all have areas of life where we think we try to control situations. Maybe it’s your family, your relationship, your colleagues or staff, career, someone’s health, and wellbeing… 

We soon learn when it’s much wiser to let go and let god, let things unfold, let god be the caretaker of the situation.

How To Let Go And Let God - Spiritual Wisdom Spiritual Teacher, Coach Eileen Burns

Top Tips To Let Go And Let God

 STOP And Check In With Yourself; Notice when you are in a constant state of fear, resistance when you want to control everything?

Meditate Daily; Meditation is a great aid in helping us be in a better state of being, flow. It also helps deepen our spiritual connection, our intuition, and inner guidance to god

Cultivate A Sense Of Trust; when you learn how to trust there is a bigger picture, bigger plan it is much easier to let go when it is the right or healthier thing to do. You will also get a deeper sense of when it is appropriate to take action.

Acceptance In The Present Moment; when you learn how to practice acceptance of each present moment, you learn how to surrender in that specific moment. Please understand acceptance does not mean you are lying down or giving up on a situation. You are just surrendering to that moment, to make room for God to come in and either give you guidance for action or guidance for patience.

The Power Of Letting Go And Letting God

I spent a large part of my twenties housebound and at times bedbound.  Oh how hard I tried to get better, a woman on a mission to fix, overcome, and try to control, every aspect of my health. 

I meditated at least 20 minutes twice a day

I visualized myself healing every morning and the night going to bed.

I even followed a no sugar, no gluten, no dairy diet for many years.

I did all sorts of affirmations, gratitude, mindset, and law of attraction courses.

I spend many thousands of pounds on so many forms of healing therapies.

I got all sorts of tests and nutritional support 

But you know what the biggest healing breakthroughs were only when I started to let go and just be. Because the harder I tried to heal myself the more symptoms and further problems I created.  I began to realise that fighting against dis-ease is not always the best way to heal. In many ways your fighting with your body.

The Distress Of Denial And Resistance

 I remember one particular day I was so frustrated my body wouldn’t do what I wanted it to do. I had been training to be a singer before I got really ill, and was fighting so hard to get back to doing what I loved. And it just wasn’t happening I could hardly walk never mind anything else.

My mum I think saw my frustration and said to me  “Be still and know that I am god”. In a way, these were not the words I wanted to hear but something made me STOP. 

When I look back it breaks my heart in some ways I was trying so so hard to fix, heal, myself. I was carrying so much shame that I wasn’t better,  I wasn’t healed. I was a trained healer, I had studied so much, tried so much and I still wasn’t fixed. I felt so much guilt that there was something wrong or bad about me. I just wanted to live that normal life like my friends, my siblings, I suppose there was an element of why me? But the main problem I was unconsciously fighting, resisting, trying to survive never mind thrive.

The Healing Power As You Let Go And Let God

 

And the truth was, IT WAS only those times when I let go and let god. Those times when I stopped trying so hard and gave up that need to control. I started to get stronger and stronger. Because I wasn’t resisting what my body was trying to tell me

Now I have to say I was a bit impatient in my healing journey and it wasn’t plain sailing after that. Because it takes tremendous courage to truly surrender. I did get some of my health back but I was just so desperate to get some of my life back. The only way I knew how was to became self-employed. Despite still needing to sleep/rest up to 14 hours a day just to function, serious mobility, and stamina issues.  I just wanted to feel valued, feel worthy, have a purpose, and not depend on the lowest of state benefits.

In many ways, my business gave me so much, it was highly empowering. But underneath like most of us, I hadn’t healed within, where it truly mattered. That place where all disease, unhappiness, addictions, stress, and anxiety resides. Like most of us, I wanted a role, an identity to mold myself into and control.  Anything but this distorted perception of myself as a disabled weak fragile woman with no value. But despite being a stress therapist, I attracted very extreme business challenges. And had an unhealthy need to fight for my businesses at almost any cost because I over-identified with it.

In many ways, my business was my baby, my relationship, and a replacement for all those things I also loved that I could no longer do.

When Your Forced To STOP, Let Go And Let God Into Your Life

It was often only when I was forced to STOP.  That I had to let go and let god that I was reminded how powerful letting go is. And believe me, you would have thought I would have learned. I have received so many huge signs, particularly around my health; threatened eye loss, suspected cancer scares, surviving life-threatening sepsis and so much more. I seem to be a slow learner or very very stubborn lol.

You know, when we let go and let god and just be, it is not just deeply healing or spiritual. But it can be life-transforming and magical. In these moments, so much shifted in my life in such a deeper and profound way. We don’t have to do it all alone, we don’t have to live our lives in a specific way. We are supported, we are being guided, but are we listening, or maybe more importantly are we trusting?

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Your Soul’s Essence How To Nurture It

What Is Your Soul’s Essence And How Do You Nurture It?

I believe our Soul’s Essence is our purest essence, who we are at a core level. Not the stories we tell  ourself or who the world tell us we are. But that aspect of us that naturally shines through when we are allowed to be free to be our self.

When we remove the distracting material things of this world, we get to the coure of one’s soul. Our soul’s essence is that mixture of beautiful gifts and traits we are here to share in the world. But sadly most of us have such a distorted perception of ourself and our purpose. We often can’t see or recognise our soul’s essence never mind shine our soul’s essence.

 

Why Don’t I Recognise My Soul’s Essence?

If you are a highly sensitive person or empath who is highly intuitive, psychic or clairvoyant in any way. You maybe have been traumatised into believing your unique soul’s essence is weak, bad, evil, scarey, stressful or even exhuasting from childhood. Because often highly sensitive children are often viewed as weak, vulnerable, over dramatic, immature, dysfunctional by those around them. And often grow up believing this about themself. Never mind a highly psychic sensitive child who is often viewed as crazy, mentally unwell, weird, having a vivid imagination or simply dishonest.

Parents and siblings of a HSP can struggle to understand their highly sensitives traits and gifts. This fear or negativity around the HSP’s soul essence can trigger a lot of conflict not just around the empath or HSP but within them. And as we know inner conflict is one of the biggest ways we all disempower ourself and create dis-ease or dis-harmony within the psyche. So in many ways we try to dampen down or cut off that connection to our unique essence because of our own fear.

I know how much I feared my own psychic and intuitive gifts in my life particulary as a teenager. Although I naturally used many of my empathic and intuitive gifts in my healing and therapeutic work. I was terrified of my some of the psychic gifts I appeared to have from young age especially when I was brought up in a religion that viewed many of these abilities as wrong. This can be hugely disempowering and disabling. But thankfully I have started to recognise how much they are just part of my unique soul’s essence, part of what I am here to do.

But even if you are not a HSP or empath most people struggle to recognise their soul’s essence because of most people today are so disconnected with their true self. They are so caught up with material and egoic distractions of the noisey mind they are not tapping into what is already there.

 

How Can I Build A Strong Connection With My Soul’s Essence?

 

Meditate: One of the most simplest ways you can start build a more natural connection with your Soul’s Essence is through meditation. Paticularly more traditional style meditations than guided meditations especially to begin with. Because this initially helps us loosen our attachment to the ego to our over dependence on the rational or logic mind. If you are a HSP or empath who has spent most of their life in conflict with their psychic and intuitive gifts and sensitivites, your inner conflict will always want to depend on the rational logic mind. Traditional based meditation techniques helps you spend time quite time in the stillness with the self, your self. So you naturally build up a much more stronger connection without expectation or without your imagination getting too carried away which can sometimes happen in guided meditations.

Get Grounded: The highly sensitive person often struggles to make a strong trustworthy connection with the soul and their inner compass because they are so ungrounded. Empaths particularly are deeply affected by the energy, the emotions and world around them. So it is important that you ground regularly, as you can read in Why Highly Sensitive People Need To Ground More  As you will learn grounding doesn’t have to be all new age happy hippie stuff.

Patience: I believe one of the biggest mistakes many students make when they are trying to build up a bigger connection to their soul’s essence, souls’ purpose, intuitive or psychic gifts. Is impatience because they want to run before they can walk. They go to meditation or a psychic class just seeking answers, guidance, increased abilities. Instead of simply nurturing a relationship with the self or their soul’s essence first. So they do not build up a strong foundation or strong connection, rather a shoddy one that is based on only what they can seem to get on a superficial egoic way. I will give you an example, I began studying Reiki 26 years ago and things have changed so dramatically in so many ways. Even the word Reiki Master/ Teacher now is a very loose term because most teachers today certainly haven’t spend decades mastering their reiki practise on a day to day basis. In-fact today many go on to Master/Teacher level in a few years with often very  few clients experiences under their belt. And often attracts students who simply want to be more psychic or just looking for a certificate in some sort of type of holistic fast track training. Very few people are willing to truly master anything, they are too busy looking at the next distraction or next external thing to feed the ego.

Positive Intention: With a positive intention in life you create a much more positive vibration in your energy field. That does not mean you do not deny what emotions want to come up and flow out for healing. Emotions are simple energy in motion,we just need to allow them to flow but the biggest challenge most of us have is we either want to deny or block the feeling out of fear. Or we focus on the story we believe triggered the emotion. And we ruminate that story over and over in our head. Positive Intention opens you up to allowing magic, synchronicities, spiritual guidance into your life. It is one of the reasons I prefer intentions rather than goals, goals can be too linear specific and egoic. They don’t allow room for all the magical possibilies around us we couldn’t possibly imagine could happen.

Trust: Like every thing in life a strong connection with a strong foundation is only built up over time, with integrity, authenticity and trust. You have to build up trust with your soul’s essence. And believe me if you take the time to do it right, your connection will become so much more powerful and unshakeable.

When you meditate, get grounded, send out a more positive intent with patience and trust you are less likely to waste so much time and energy running around in circles with your ego. Distracting yourself with all sorts of things, ideas, courses or things that never fulfill your passion, purpose or inner being. You are more open to and likely to start naturally flowing with life’s synchronicities, life’s magic.

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